Nowadays, there are many couples that always fight over a small matter. There are a lot of problem occur to these fight. Usually this fight will be continuously until 2 or 3 week. The fight, arguments and disagreements just seem to erupt out of no where and neither person knows how to stop the pattern. If you would like to stop fighting before, there are 5 ways that you are going to love. There are 5 ways to create more love have worked for us and others and we invite you to try them in your relationship right now. This way, there’s more love no matter what time of the year it is…..
It may seems like unsuitable idea but why don’t both of you give it try. It takes both couple to recognize what they had said and they do until they had a fight. Making a pack of argue doesn’t mean sucking in your hurts and pulling a smiling face when you didn’t mean it. It means be “real” with yourself and your partner about you feel without blaming the other.
It’s a fact. When it’s come to relationship and love, all the words we say are NOT created equal. Usually when you had fight, you used to say “ How could you say that!!” or “How dare you!!”. Instead why don’t you use a word that can make your lover feel easy to hear like “ I’d love to spend time with you” or “ You looked beautiful today”. That way you can prevent from the fight occur.
Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. You have to trust each other and do not let the third person destroy your relationship. Ask first your lover when you heard something that you curious about.
Many fights kept going because one or both of people doesn’t feel being appreciated. If you feel like you aren’t appreciated, your tendency may probably be to withhold appreciating each other. It might be a loving thought that flits through your mind but you never say as you assume your partner will understand you that you feel unappreciated. If you want to cut the distance and the fight between you, start appreciating each other.
Find a way to resolve it. Don't hang onto it. When you hold onto a grudge and to being right, there's no room for listening to your partner. One way to "let go" of your grudge is to open to listening to what your partner has to say with new "ears."Listen as if this is something new and listen for any truth at all in what he or she says. if you want to cut your fights in half, resolve old issues, let them go, and focus only on the issue at hand.
