HOW TO PREVENT FIGHT WITH YOUR SOULMATE ?

Nowadays, there are many couples that always fight over a small matter. There are a lot of problem occur to these fight. Usually this fight will be continuously until 2 or 3 week. The fight, arguments and disagreements just seem to erupt out of no where and neither person knows how to stop the pattern. If you would like to stop fighting before, there are 5 ways that you are going to love. There are 5 ways to create more love have worked for us and others and we invite you to try them in your relationship right now. This way, there’s more love no matter what time of the year it is…..

# 1 Make a non argue-pact

It may seems like unsuitable idea but why don’t both of you give it try. It takes both couple to recognize what they had said and they do until they had a fight. Making a pack of argue doesn’t mean sucking in your hurts and pulling a smiling face when you didn’t mean it. It means be “real” with yourself and your partner about you feel without blaming the other.

# 2 Use a magic words

It’s a fact. When it’s come to relationship and love, all the words we say are NOT created equal. Usually when you had fight, you used to say “ How could you say that!!” or “How dare you!!”. Instead why don’t you use a word that can make your lover feel easy to hear like “ I’d love to spend time with you” or “ You looked beautiful today”. That way you can prevent from the fight occur.

# 3 Trusting

Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. You have to trust each other and do not let the third person destroy your relationship. Ask first your lover when you heard something that you curious about.

# 4 Appreciate your partner

Many fights kept going because one or both of people doesn’t feel being appreciated. If you feel like you aren’t appreciated, your tendency may probably be to withhold appreciating each other. It might be a loving thought that flits through your mind but you never say as you assume your partner will understand you that you feel unappreciated. If you want to cut the distance and the fight between you, start appreciating each other.

# 5 Stop holding grudges and holding onto being right

Find a way to resolve it. Don't hang onto it. When you hold onto a grudge and to being right, there's no room for listening to your partner. One way to "let go" of your grudge is to open to listening to what your partner has to say with new "ears."Listen as if this is something new and listen for any truth at all in what he or she says. if you want to cut your fights in half, resolve old issues, let them go, and focus only on the issue at hand.

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Al-kisah yer bermula ketika semua plajr baru bg sesi 2007/2008 sedang cbuk mendaftarkn diri bg kemasukkan baru ke TATiUC...ketika itulah tiba2 satu seorng menegur " awk, borang nie kne isi x?" tgur suara tersebut..aku yg ketika itu agak terkejut terus menjwb "rase yer xpyh kot".. aku terus menegur empunya suara tersebut.." awk ambk course ape kt cni?" ..."sy ambk polymer".. jwb si suara.."eh, sama la kte..sy pn ambk polymer jgk.." jwbku..dr ctu la bermulalah sesi perkenalan yg akhir yer membawa kepada sebuah persahabtan yg akrab..sepanjng melalui liku-liku hdup d TATi selama 3thn kami tempuhi bersama..sentiasa bersama..d ctu ade aku,d ctu ade dia..kami tidak pernah se
kali berpisah..pahit manis kami harungi bersama..kami merupakan rakan sekelas dan juga merupakan rakan sebilik jd tidak hairan la org lain tgk betapa rapat yer kami berdua... wlaupn "dia" lbh tua dr aku, tp aku sedikit pn tidak berasa kekok dgn yer..ramai yg menyangkakn yg kami nie adalah kwn rapat sejak kecil tp pertemuan singkat pd hari pendaftaran tersebut telah membungakn persahabtan kami...ketika aku ada masalah, si "dia" byk memberi kata2 nasihat kpd aku, dan ketika si "dia" mempunyai masalah aku jga akan melakukan perkara yg sama...segala masalah kami kongsi bersama..tiada rahsia d antara kami berdua..namun btl kata org, langit tak selalu yer cerah... hujan @ ribut akan melanda jua...tiba si "dia" mula menjauhkan diri dari aku..setelah si"dia" berjumpa dgn kekasih ati, "dia" spt sudah melupakan aku...aku berasa sedih sgt...mane janji2 yg kau taburkan kpd aku...aku masih igt lg, dia pnh berkata " sy janji akan smbng belajar sama2 dgn awk."..mmg aku berharap sgt dia tunaikan janji itu tp aku faham sb utama dia tidak dapat mengotakan janji itu..aku terima dgn rela hati..tetapi perkara yg membuatkan aku cukup berasa ati dgn tindakan yer adalh dia tidak memaklumkan kpd aku malah kwn2 aku yg lain yg dia sudah bertunang dan bkal melangsungkan perkahwinan pd raya ke-6 ini..aku terasa sgt..terasa sgt2..xtau mcm mane nk ckp..aku tau perkara ini pn dr org lain..aku blh terima lg yg dia tidak menjemput aku, tp dia xpnh pn sesekali menelefon or even msg aku utk memaklumkan yg dia sdh menjadi tunangan org dan bakal melangsungkan perkahwinan..mane janji2 dlu..aku igt lg dan msih jelas dlm kotak ingatan aku, dia pernah berkata.." nanti bila sy tunang ke @ kahwin, sy mst jemput dulu dan memaklumkan kpd awk terlebih dahulu.." tp mane pergi yer janji tersebut??.. aku sdh sgt.. aku tau aku tak penting mane dlm hidup yer, tp aku harap yg dia menghargai persahabatan kami selama 3thn ini..aku xtau nk kata ape2 lg.. aku cuma mampu berdoa semoga si "dia" sentiasa berbahagia d samping insan tersayang.. Aku sentiasa mendoakan kesejahteraan dan kebahagianyer... Terima Kasih Teman..(!_!)..xxxiiooxx..

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